French kiss tips

The most important thing to remember: When you want to French kiss a guy, first start off with some nice, slow closed-mouth kisses, then some open-mouthed no-tongue kisses. This gets your lips warmed up and lets you get into the joy and closeness of kissing. So relax and take your time before moving on to anything involving your tongue. It's really important to go slow and ease into it when you're going to French kiss.

Once you're ready to start using your tongue, it's best to give the boy you're kissing a signal that you're going to do it. Do this by opening your mouth a little bit and maybe darting your tongue out just a bit. Give his lips a tiny lick with your tongue, just a bit, so that he knows what's coming up. If he's into French kissing you, he'll probably open his lips a little and maybe lick your lips back a bit. This is good! It means you have a "green light" to keep on going.

It's nice to just do this kind of light tonguing for a bit. It can be very exciting to tease each other's lips with your tongues, sharing each other's breath. Whatever you do, do NOT shove your tongue right into his mouth! That will feel gross to him (guys rate it the number one thing girls do to turn them off while kissing) and it's way too aggressive. If he gets over-excited and puts his tongue way in your mouth, gently pull back from the kiss for a second and start again, doing your light tongue touches so he gets the message he needs to take it slower.

When you want to get a little deeper into French kissing, all you have to do is just extend your tongue a little more into your mouth. Basically you'll be doing exactly what you've been doing, but just deeper. Use a little more of your tongue, and let the kisses last a little longer. The key to a great French kiss is to keep your mouth nice and soft, and to be really gentle and relaxed.

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An introduction to the seductive art of French Kissing.
Difficulty: Easy
Time Required: N/A
Here's How:

1. Set the scene. Make sure that the mood and time are right.
2. Relax! Take a deep breath and let go of any tension in your neck and shoulders.
3. Put your arms around the person you want to kiss.
4. Start off with a normal kiss, not too firm, not too aggressive. Closing your eyes is optional.
5. In mid kiss, gently open your mouth and softly nudge the other persons mouth open using your tongue.
6. Again, not too aggressively, move your tongue inside the other persons mouth and playfully touch their tounge.
7. Read the other persons body language, if they seem tense or start to pull away, stop what you are doing.
8. If they open their mouth more or otherwise indicate they like the kiss, keep on doing what you have been only with a little more passion.
9. As the kissing gets going saliva build up can be a problem, don't forget to swallow.
10. Make sure you keep your tongues relaxed but your lips tight (saliva again), you don't want the kiss to turn messy.

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